FB friend:
Conservative white men don't abide.
That's the biggest difference between them and everyone else. Everyone else tries to abide by the rules of society, both formal and informal. Yes, some of these rules are unreasonable: social rules and customs can be arbitrary or even unfair. But most people try to get along. They try to keep the peace. They try to be reasonable. They try to abide. Conservative white men don't.
Tell them to respect the environment, and they will deliberately pollute MORE. Tell them to stop being racist, and they will act MORE racist, to the point that they start outlawing the teaching of America's racist history and boycotting any form of entertainment that seems anti-racist. Tell them that guns are harming people, and they will buy MORE guns, and march around brandishing their guns in peoples' faces in public. Tell them to buy smaller, more fuel-efficient cars, and they will deliberately buy BIGGER gas-guzzlers. Tell them to wear a mask during a pandemic to protect others, and they will not only refuse, but they will harass and attack others for wearing masks. Tell them that it's cruel to black people to honour the Confederacy, and they will fly huge confederate flags, paint confederate flags on their trucks, and tattoo confederate flags on their bodies. Tell them to stop being mean to LGBT people, and they will try to write their hatred of LGBT people into law. Tell them to stop being sexist, and they will make a point of voting for the worst sexist they can find, just to "own the libs".
They insist that white male privilege isn't real, but look at how they react when you ask them to abide by anything. Look at how they react when you try to appeal to their sense of decency. They are so unaccustomed to abiding by anyone else's rules that they lose their minds when you ask them to.